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If you want to have a family, you should not "make peace" with not having one.

At the end of the day, you need to meet women. I suggest online dating, and saying yes to any female that is interested. It doesn't matter if they are of interest to you at all. You just need practice. Do that a few times and one of those chicks will probably show some interest in you, which will go a long way to improving your self-confidence and self-esteem. Combine those two things,.and now you can move up the food chain a little bit, and try to find a better woman. It just kind of snowballs. It might take a couple years, but so what? Or, you might get lucky and find that you connect with one of the first few people you meet.

Seriously, just get on the apps, show interest in everyone (literally every member of the gender that you're attracted to) and take whatever you can get. The absolute worst case scenario is that you spend an awkward hour on a date and you never talk to the person again. Who gives a shit about that?