Honestly, I kinda wish I could've just answered "it depends on the game" to all the questions.
Ya, the questions were definitely very generalized. I mean, when you ask me how important X aspect of a game is to me, the real answer is pretty much always going to tie into what the actual game is.
Do I love going for all the achievements/trophies? Sure...if it's a game like Sekiro or Dark Souls.
Do I enjoy being chaotic and destructive? I mean...if we're talking being evil in an RPG now and again, absolutely. If we're talking gunning down loads of pedestrians in GTA, meh.
Power chasing, and focusing purely on stats, levels, gear, etc? Yes....if I'm playing Path of Exile or something of that sort.
And so on....