The LGBT thread (Revisited)

[Runa216]

TruckOSaurus said:

Runa216 said:
did I dun gone and killed the thread again?

I don't think so. I found your post very interesting, gives me some perspective on how complex someone's sexuality can be. Makes my "I'm a dude who likes dudes" situation look pretty simple by comparison.

hoo boy do I ever wish I could just be a guy who likes guys. My life would be so much easier if I was gay (My parents and friends have been trying to make me 'come out' since I was like 12 or 13 or something, because people don't understand that just because I like some things that gay men like, it doesn't mean I myself am gay.) I mean, I'm no catch or anything, I'm by no means an attractive person (maybe a 4-5 on the scale of 1-10?), but I've met plenty of guys who would date me if I was into them. Sadly, my constantly shifting identity and sexuality ensure I'll almost certainly never be comfortable with any one person, so I never date. 

I have a female roommate that has the hots for me (Everyone thinks we're dating and her therapist has even encouraged her to pursue me becuase apparently I'm good for her mental health or something? she didn't give me all the details), but I just don't see myself settling down. I've got my snakes, I've got a dog, and I've got adult toys for when I'm in that sort of mood, which isn't all that often.