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curl-6 on 02 February 2020
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SwitchUP said:
curl-6 said:

Thanks man. At the moment prognosis seems fairly good; my PET scans earlier this month said it hadn't spread beyond the primary tumor, and I'm currently midway through a course of radiation therapy. 

Date tonight went okay; just got home. Her English was great so it was much easier to communicate and we had a good ol' chat. Dunno if she likes me in "that" way, though I get the sense she's looking for something more serious and long term, which I'm not given the circumstances. If nothing else I think at least we could be friends.

That's awesome man. I'm truly happy to hear that theres positive news as far as that goes. I nearly lost my mom when I was 15.... it destroyed me... but that old Portuguese woman wouldnt be stopped, haha. Thank god... I dont know what I'd have done without my mom... shes the most amazing person I've ever known.... anyway, I'm glad things are looking good for you. Keep your head up, and always try to be upbeat... I know... sometimes easier said than done. 

I'm happy that you're having some good times with the dating.... but, if I may say one thing... and I'm not trying to over step here.... unless you just dont want anything long term, just because you dont, then that's all good.... but if you do, regardless of what's happening.... dont prevent yourself from the happiness you deserve. If you meet a good woman, and you're thinking... shit, she could be the one.... as long as she knows what you're up against.... go for it. 

Here's to an amazing and prosperous future for you my friend. God is with you.... and so am i... for what its worth.

Thanks man. I nearly lost my Mum to cancer back in 2012-2014, so I know the feeling.

As far as dating, if I did indeed meet someone absolutely amazing you I could see myself going long term with, and they wanted that too, I would go for it. It's just that in general I'd rather go for casual short term dating atm as it's less stressful and I have so much stress already. 

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