I am agree , it's up to developer. But recently PS4 pro and Xbox Scarlet able to put option to choose setting between resolution, graphic quality or frame rates (60fps) . I bet we will see same ability on PS5 or scarlet , of course it will be limited compare to PC but at least gamer have some option. Also Sony and Microsoft already hint that both console can run games at 120 fps using HDMI 2.1 which is a requirement for 4K TV to run at 120 fps ( i am not saying games at 4k will run at 120 fps).
Console has becoming more like PC these recent years. Xbox One X for example able to use Freesync capability when using HDMI 2.1 on some monitor or TV with Freesync capability. These feature were exclusives only for PC gamers back then ,now console gamer can enjoy it on normal TV (using HDMI 2.1).
Don't get me wrong, it'd be awesome if it became standard for devs to give players detail vs perfomance modes, as some games already have. I'm just not expecting it.
Bet with Liquidlaser: I say PS5 and Xbox Series will sell more than 56 million combined by the end of 2023.