vivster said:
It's your fucking sexuality that you are born with. It defines with who you want to have sex with, not who you are. Might as well make that little mole on my back or my natural hair color my identity. You can't downplay sexuality because it doesn't matter one bit in the first place. |
That little mole is part of your identity yes. Sexuality is one of many things that defines you. Don't even try to downplay that.