| Dark_Lord_2008 said: I have nothing to offer a future partner and I am not a value guy. I have a negative personality and I am not capable of faking it until I make it. I have been stuck with the poor me mentality for a very long time. I tried therapy and have been on medication for mental health issues but it did not change my attitude or personality. I have no expectations in regards to dating, because the past is a good indicator of how the future will unfold. Any rejection or failure I take very personally and get depressed for a very long time. Failed a college unit, failed a driving test or rejected from jobs that I wanted I was so depressed. I did not have the mental maturity to cope with facing endless rejection in dating, so I opted not to bother after a few rejections in my younger. Now being an older guy I reflect on my life and wonder what could have been if I was born with a different personality. I always found it very hard to deal with failure, rejection and set backs in life. I never learned the coping skills to deal with life when things do not go my way I quit. |
I already told you my failures and yet you keep going back to the same old.
Hell I will add to it. My eyes are somewhat fucked so I don't have a license either. It hasn't stopped me from finding a wife. She understands. I am even double her weight and she still don't care (even before we got married). If i went on a dating app i wouldn't get any hits based on looks lol. I went out in the real world and mingled. Also women to a degree like to play hard to get. you can't just give up after one chat, unless they call you a creep or something then you know they are totally not into you.
As I mentioned before you need to fail before you succeeded. That is how we learn. Failure hits everyone hard, but the more you fail the better you get at moving on with it.
