Have you/would you ever use the services of a prostitute?

[Runa216]

So, so many misconceptions and dehumanizing terminology in this thread. It actually makes me sad because I like to think that we, as a society, have come to terms with certain things and have come a long way towards understanding and respecting one another.

Then I browse this forum and am proved wrong fairly consistently.

That said, on topic, I wouldn't be interested in utilizing a prostitute's services. Not for any reason you might think - I'm not monogamous, I don't think it's demeaning, I don't think it's too cheap or too expensive or too dangerous, I'm not hung up about waiting for marriage, and I don't have strong opinions on prostitution. I just don't have interest in sex. I find myself bored and nonchalant about sex when I literally have men or women throwing themselves at me (I'm not an attractive person but I have more than a few skills that have made me well-liked among my group of friends; parts of me are coveted by locals.)

But I'm asexual, or demisexual. I masturbate a lot, sure, but actual sex is far more work than it's worth. the time, the effort, the foreplay on both sides, the energy expenditure, the awkwardness, and the time - did I mention how much time it takes to finish? Seriously, last time I finished it took me over an hour and I could have done that in a fraction of the time with myself and some toys. foreplay, fingers, fisting, vibrators, dildos, hands, all of that is WAY more fun for me than penis in vagina or penis in ass or vagina against vagina. I love having partners, I love being cuddly, and I love intimacy but sex itself is boring, monotonous, tedius, and unappealing.

Especially with condoms.

it just feels like nothing. Condoms are the bane of sex but I refuse to have sex without them because the last thing I need is to deal with a pregnancy. I'm not worried about STDs, I chose my partners carefully, but pregnancy is the ultimate parasite and one of the worst things that could happen to me. Gonna just get the tubes tied and call it a lifetime of fun, in theory. You know, just in case.

If I had a choice I'd rather let someone fist me or I'll just rub one out myself.

Seriously, though, how do you enjoy condoms? Just feels like you're sticking a candle in yourself. Where's the texture? The fleshy sensation? Hell, even some of the warmth disappears when your partner wears one.