TheLastStarFighter said:
The person didn’t want to be with you and ended it. What more did you need? You are probably just messed up because 5 years is a long time, and also because you are allowing yourself to be messed up. |
Its kind off a personal thing and more context is needed for each individual to know the full extent of the impact.
And offcourse i was not strong enough mentally to withstand not getting messed up but is it worth the risk of messing someone up to just make it easy for yourself ending a relationship or should we out of respect make it a tiny bit harder for ourselves and give each other closure?