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TheLastStarFighter said:
Immersiveunreality said:
Ex did that to me very unexpected and after 5 years of being together,never got closure and got me and relationships afterwards fucked up for years.

The person didn’t want to be with you and ended it.  What more did you need?  You are probably just messed up because 5 years is a long time, and also because you are allowing yourself to be messed up.

Its kind off a personal thing and more context is needed for each individual to know the full extent of the impact.

And offcourse i was not strong enough mentally to withstand not getting messed up but is it worth the risk of messing someone up to just make it easy for yourself ending a relationship or should we out of respect make it a tiny bit harder for ourselves and give each other closure?