Whoah whoah whoah!
Approaching women and getting all aggressive and weird is only going to get you thrown in jail with a restraining order.
Part of the issue with guys who have trouble with women is they don’t treat them like human beings. Incel types tend to try to (really poorly) play manipulation games and are generally jerky and creep.
For getting in relationships? Women are like men, they like things that they find interesting. With guys, we like a well presented lady who takes care of herself and isn’t all weird; women, like pretty much the exact same thing. Then it’s just about being interesting, which isn’t difficult; got a job? dreams? successes? And don’t be aggressive, be fun.
Don’t play games; have shit going on, because that’s interesting. Don’t stick around at one bar or party all night, because there’s only so many people you can meet there, and people like knowing what other people are doing. You’re at a party? think about the pub you’ll be hitting next. You’re at a pub? think about the dance spot you’ll be hitting next. You’re at a dance spot? think about the party you’ll be hitting next. That just gets people in general interested in doing shit. You’ll probably meet people that aren’t thinking of going, but it’s generally an excuse to exchange contact info. Even if you don’t pick up, you’ve got a high chance at getting
some kind of date going with someone.
Any way, it’s not rocket science. Just be yourself while doing stuff that’s fun with stuff lined up to anticipate.
And for God’s sake clean yourself up. I know cultures are different, but a lot of the trouble I see many guys having is the fact that they just look like a mess. Women are generally a lot better at this because they have a whole culture around cleaning up. Get out an iron, put next proper shoes, because looking like a slob isn’t impressing any woman.
I describe myself as a little dose of toxic masculinity.
