VGPolyglot said:
In my current situation, yes. In any case that's not a priority for me, I'd much rather befriend people at the moment instead of trying to get into sexual relationships. |
Alright. I'm going to be real with you and not respond with another joke post so you dont think i am mocking you personally.
Of course this is just an assumption based on what you wrote and your wording of things. I could be totally wrong, or I could be spot on.
It seems your using the "hassle" of entering a relationship as an excuse. Either
1- you are afraid of rejection and scared to try or
2- you are trying but can't seem to get into a relationship.
Thus you created the excuse of the hassle in order to justify your decision to not pursue a relationship.
The other thing that reaffirms this to me is that you said you'd rather befriend people than enter relationships. A relationship is also a friendship and it seems a bit nonsensical to not want to get close to a woman you enjoy being with and hanging around with. Of course there are women who you want to just be friends with and don't want to date. But putting that label on everyone by default is what makes it seem like there is a confidence problem. Because if you were in the situation to have a FWB I doubt you would have made this thread.
This isn't a personal attack or trying to make you look bad. This is just an attempt (based on just two comments and my mind boggling perception) to identify the true problem here. You basically made a thread asking people what to beat your meat too, that doesn't seem like a great question to ask and one that shows that there is an underlying problem.
