| o_O.Q said: "Remember that the next time you hear some guy online cite "evolutionary biology" or "science" in the abstract as an argument against feminist ideas that challenge gender roles." fair enough, do you think then that if we socialised girls the same as boys then we'd have men and women that behave the same in adulthood?
" I've spoken to many women over the years who have told me that they deliberately avoid activities like weight-lifting out of fear that they'll "bulk up like a man", i.e. become less female as a result. I don't think that gendered stigmas like that should exist." yeah i've heard women make comments like that before and its pretty ignorant a thing to say since putting on muscle generally takes a lot of time and effort but isn't that more to do though with what men and women find attractive though? like maybe they figure that since men aren't attracted to large women with lots of muscle that they'd therefore avoid becoming that way?
"Approximately 88% of porn scenes contain violent acts (such as slapping, choking, etc.) " this wasn't posted to me but an interesting thing about this is that i've experienced and men i know have experienced women requested to be slapped, have their hair pulled or choked or whatever and being a good man i'd refuse i've wondered if maybe that's due to our society socialising women to percieve themselves as weaker and worthy of abuse of something |
As many others have said, guns would not be a solution, but they might instead make the problem worse.
And to the bolded, so you don´t like to please your partner, because that somehow would make you a bad man? Pain and pleasure can go hand in hand, there is nothing wrong in concensual kinkiness, its doesn´t make anyone bad.
And as someone said, when alcohol is in the picture, it can make it difficult to know if something that happened was a rape or if it wasn´t. Two adults who are equally drunk and together decide to have sex, should be allowed to do so, but if one is clearly more intoxicated then its not even ground and the other one should understand that and refuse to have sex or at least not manipulate the other into sex.
But yeah, there is a lot of grey area there and not every rape is as much rape as another rape.
