Jaicee said:
Rape is so funny. In my view of it, rape culture is any environment wherein predatory sexual behavior is treated as normal or trivial. I trust you'll forgive me for embracing this broad, intolerant definition thereof. I am conversely not a liberal when it comes to gender definitions. Masculine and feminine, in my view of it, are just gendered ways of saying dominant and submissive respectively. For a man to want to be a "manly" man is for him to want to be a controlling man, and for a woman to want to be a "feminine" woman is for her to want to be controlled and demeaned. I don't view it as more complicated than that. An egalitarian society features no such concepts, in my opinion. Liberals love to speak in careful nuances. "Mainstream" porn. "Toxic" masculinity. Etc. In reality, there is no other kind of masculinity, but only different strategies and degrees to which it is tolerated by a given society. That is why, despite all these different forms and expressions of masculinity existing around the world that you highlight, there is not a single country that treats women as the equals of men overall. Not even one. And it also why rape is a particular crime committed almost exclusively by men in each case. |
"In my view of it, rape culture is any environment wherein predatory sexual behavior is treated as normal or trivial. I trust you'll forgive me for embracing this broad, intolerant definition thereof."
what would you define as predatory in this context?
"there is not a single country that treats women as the equals of men overall. "
so in your view men and women are the same when not socialised differently?
" For a man to want to be a "manly" man is for him to want to be a controlling man"
what about working out and wanting to be strong?
is it bad for a man to want to be able to squat 600 pounds?