The American family is falling apart

[CrazyGamer2017]

VGPolyglot said:

CrazyGamer2017 said:

Really? You go out for a walk and you are supposed to know that you are going to get stabbed?

On the other side, you marry someone you don't know well enough, yet you assume he's going to be perfect and nothing bad could possibly comes out of him?

Assuming other people are dangerous is BASIC STUFF, it's everywhere. Why do you think my name is crazygamer and not my real name? why do you think my face, address, family names, place of work etc... do not appear on this forum? Why do you think YOUR name, address etc... do not appear in the forum? Why is the front door of your house locked when you are not home, possibly locked too when you are home? Because you DO ASSUME there is danger with other human beings and if you don't assume, and let your door open all day long or give all your info online and sooner or later something bad happens, you are not going to consider your MISTAKE as exactly that?

Same thing here, don't leave your door open, don't give your info online and if you do then take responsibility. NOT for the crime someone could commit against you but for the lack of good judgement of doing those things.

So, unless you keep yourself locked up in your house all day, and never let anyone come in, it's your mistake and you have to take responsibility for something bad happening to you?

Well yes, I'd feel like an idiot if I let in someone I don't really know and if that someone becomes dangerous. But again and stop ignoring this next part: that someone entering your house is the ONLY one responsible for the actual attack or stabbing or whatever he'd do to you in your house.

I think the problem in this argument is that you guys don't understand the difference between "taking responsibility" and "committing a crime". Cause you act as if I said the victim commits a crime when all I say is the victim needs to take responsibility for the mistake he/she made. The criminal who made the crime is still the ONLY ONE responsible for the crime itself.

If you don't learn to take responsibility then you will be in danger all the time throughout your life cause you'll never learn to make smart choices, you'll always be doing dangerous stuff and when something bad happens, it's not your responsibility which means you'll do AGAIN next time something stupid and put yourself in danger. Like children do. Which is why we teach kids to not do dangerous stuff, to not cross roads without watching for cars etc. The moment a kid understands and starts looking carefully before crossing a road, that kid has learn to take responsibility for the consequence of crossing without looking first for cars and he will be much safer then.