sundin13 said:
Okay, I'll give you a moment to try to explain what the hell that means. You marry someone and they rape you. How do you "take responsibility" for marrying them in this context without venturing down a path of victim blaming. |
Let me try to use different words to explain what I am trying to say.
A woman marries a man, this man ends up raping her.
In my opinion the woman is guilty of having made a MISTAKE of marrying a guy she obviously did not know well enough to realize the guy is an asshole that for some illogical reason likes to rape a woman he CAN have sex with AND ALSO AT THE SAME TIME, the guy is GUILTY of the crime of raping the woman, HE IS to blame ok? HIS RESPONSIBILITY is the main one, as a rapist he commits a crime OK? HER responsibility is NOT a crime,it's a MISTAKE, the mistake of marrying an asshole she shouldn't have. To HIM I say, go to jail you filthy rapist, to her I say TAKE RESPONSIBILITY for the mistake you made. Well I would not say that to her face, as it would be rude, I'm telling you guys here AS AN EXAMPLE, to make a point ok?
Now if this is not clear, then I give up, call me Hitler if you want, judge me and accuse me of destroying mankind if it makes you happy, I really don't know how to make my point any more clear and I don't care anyway. I am not backing down and my opinion is my own.
