PSintend0 said:
StarOcean said:
Tell her.
Cheating at all is the worst breach of trust in a relationship. If she’s as conservative as you say, she’ll probably get mad and hopefully leave you. I have absolutely no sympathy for cheaters -with the exclusion of very extreme circumstances, of which you are not apart of. You were being stupid, shouldn’t have been drinking or doing whatever it was you were -neither are real excuses.
I’ve been cheated on enough in the past to think if it happens once, it’ll never happen again. It’s a naive thought -one perhaps your girlfriend will have. Nowadays if someone cheats, I leave immediately -no questions asked. Unless you were in an open relationship or whatever, it’s not okay -and from how you’re acting, there’s a 100% it isn’t open. Be a man and face the consequences of making bad decisions. |
People are not perfect and a girl kissed him while he was very drunk etc. so its not that black and white, however telling is probable better than feeling guilty and wandering when she is going to find out. And if they haven´t even talked on what is accepted and what is off limits then its even more on the grey area. For many just a quick kiss isn´t that big of a deal, but everyone is different. I woulnd´t be mad about that.
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What is this jumbled up mess of word vomit trying to convey? Whatever message it is, it isn’t convincing.
