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I'm gonna assume that your gf and you have the standard agreement on cheating. In your situation, if you kissed that girl back then it was cheating. If your gf was kissed by a guy and made out for a bit with him, would you rather her tell you or keep it quiet?

I don't consider what swingers or couples who like threesomes to be cheating because it's mutually agreed upon but I wouldn't say that is wise for most couples or good for the relationship. I'm completely against normal secretive cheating.