I actually have an answer to your respect problem:
Stop posting like Leo-J.
That guy gets no respect because he is a (fill in your appropriate, non-offending adjective here). Sure....there are a few people taht get a good laugh from him....because they like to watch him have his periodic meltdowns....but mostly we're just laughing AT him.
So if you really want respect...watch what he does...and do the opposite.
Of course Zack Blue tried that as well....and he got no respect, too. So maybe it's best you just wander off and disappear.