Ganoncrotch said:
As you grow older again you'll find that sometimes arguments are a thing which needs to happen, sometimes people see a couple having an argument about something and think they're in a bad way... often a couple willing to argue with each other are healthier than those which don't because the ones no longer arguing no longer care that their partner is doing things they see as wrong... they've just grown to expect that and know that if they were to try and argue... it wouldn't change. No one view is correct in almost any matter, even my above statement puts people who are perfectly happy with their partner in a poor light and is wrong... I've often found myself arguing with me about things I think... and sometimes I come away from those arguments feeling as though I have somehow lost but learned at the same time. I personally would hate a world where everyone got along and agreed with each other... it would be surreal to me and take away the challenge that is living your life and being unique as a human being.
but hey... I could always be wrong :D |
The problem isn’t disagreeing. If people used arguing as simply exchanging views, the world would be a better place. I’ve ‘argued’ with people many times, but we always stay civil and levelheaded until we reach a resolution
too many people use arguing to be dicks and it annoys me. I get nothing out of people who yell and scream/insult to get to their point, and it’s a waste for both parties’ time.
if arguments were used to learn and correct each other, then I wouldn’t have a problem. Guess it’s where I get my original post of determining how someone grows up