| PSintend0 said:
These two post reminded me of a problem that especially men seem to have. The need to achieve things professionally and provide. It also reminded just in general need to achieve and succeed in life. People are told that they need to: study, have a succesfull career, have friends, have a partner, have kids, have money, be fit, eat healthy food...etc..etc.... in order to be happy. As many people don´t have all that, some of them worry too much about those things that they don´t have and are fixated on being succesfull instead of just being happy. A person doesn´t have to have it all to be important, to be happy or to feel good about itself. Also its not just completely happy or completely unhappy, but actually everything between those two. Try to be good, okay, great or something, but don´t try to be perfect or feel bad for not being perfect. Forgive yourself and other when needed and remember imperfection is the only form of perfection. |
thanks : )
