Aziz Ansari Is Guilty. Of Not Being a Mind Reader - NYT

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o_O.Q said:

maxleresistant said:

I'm just glad to be married and not have to be in the dating game anymore.

Seriously, a few months from now a first sexual intercourse will be something like this

"Man: Do I have your permission to kiss you?
Woman: Ok
Man: Do you consent to me touching your boobs and vagina?
Woman: Go ahead.
Man: I think this is the right moment for me to initiate the intercourse, can I insert my penis into your vagina?
Woman: I guess so.
Man; That doesn't work, I need a clear and precise answer from you, by the way you should speak louder and look at the camera when you answer, so that the recording can be admissible in a court of law.
Woman: Wut?"

 the problem is people trying to control sexual interaction because they think women are incapable of autonomy

The problem is that most women are afraid of controling the sexual interaction, I've been with a number of women, only one was actually capable of leading things in the bedroom, the other ones I actually had to "teach them" that they should lead a little, be more communicative about what they want.

Maybe things have changed, I've been with the same woman for 7 years, but seriously, if I didn't initiated things with some of those women, nothing would have ever happened, and I wouldn't be married.

That's the problem, most women wants men to lead, but they won't say anything, they won't say what they like etc. So you just have to stumble and figure things out, that's also why sex gets better the more you do it , you get to know each others etc.

All that stupid verbal consent and everything is just sad. But whatever, that's not a problem for me. Good luck with that people