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MarkkyStorm said:
StarOcean said:

This is about the physical aspects of the body. It wasn't about real women. And the thread is about physical preference not about mistreatment, nor is it mistreating women to appreciate their body. My gf wants me to be attracted to her physical appearance, not just her personality. My friend, it doesn't work to just say you like her personality. It causes them to think they aren't pretty, that you aren't attracted to them -and they will leave you. That's a guarantee. You can love your other halves body and personality. 

Oh, yeah. This is even worse when the girl doesn't have one of the two attributes (butt & boobs). My wife is skinny with a big beautiful rounded ass, but have small boobs. Even I being a legs-guy (or a butt-guy, if I have to choose over boobs and butt) and always had praised her beautiful shapes, she still is a little insecure about her body because of the boobs. If I said that I liked her just because of her personality, she would definitely freak out.

Exactly. I mean in the past I tried to make it about personality only when I was like 13-14. But they really do hate it. Women, along with men, like to be praised for their appearance. I love when my gf tells me she thinks I'm sexy or compliments something about me. I was actually once with a girl who only liked me for my personality. That lasted a week. It was fucking weird XD