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Aeolus451 on 10 September 2017
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monocle_layton said:
Aeolus451 said:
That's not really dark humor. That's more anti-pc or edgy type. You're kinda overreacting to this and have this attitude that his sense of humor is lesser than yours or it's the bad kind. There's no bad kind. It's just different than yours. If you don't like his sense of humor, let me know and be done with it. If he doesn't stop with the jokes then stop hanging out with him. His mistake was not reading your reactions correctly.

It's not that i dislike when people have jokes i don't find funny. I don't find Kevin Hart to be hilarious, but I don't mind if I hear his jokes

 

I also don't have a problem with dark humour, but when he forces it in every conversation (even when I try to have a simple conversation), him believing that randomly blurting out 'ni**er' to me on school campus is funny was enough to piss me off.

 

He texted me about twenty minutes ago, and I think people have a point. The dude probably does struggle with finding a friend, and I might just continue to put up with him. We're still talking, and he seems to finally be opening up a bit.

 

I'm not sure if what I did was perfect, but it's allowed me to reach the dude. I'd rather have him be confronted and help him improve than allow him to simply be rejected and see him not change. 

 

Regardless of what I said to him, I don't believe abandoning him is the smart step. I'm gonna move past what we both did and help him get back on track. 

Perhaps he doesn't need help, perhaps he's looking for another a friend who's not judgemental. Honestly, you're looking down at him with this "he doesn't have friends" or "He's the lonely type or loser". Alot of people in this thread are giving you asshole advice over some jokes a guy told. If you accepted that his sense of humour/funny wasn't funny, you wouldn't try to change him or fix him. You would just tell him you don't like his edgy humor and that's that. If you're gonna look down at him or fix, save him the trouble, don't be "friends" with him. If you want to be geniune friends with him, accept him as is.