StarOcean said:
I have but and it sorta turned me on. Not enough to want sex though
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Hmm. This is fairly simple. Don't make a big deal out of it. Less experienced people tend to make a big deal out of having sex for the first time or in general and they tend to underestimate how much experienced people desire sex. So the time you two get into a situation where she wants sex, kiss her, do some foreplay to work her up, stick a jimmy on it and go at a pace she likes. She likely won't cum so she'll just wait til you cum but make sure you don't cum too early.
Since you have a muted sex drive, you'll likely have to figure out what turns you on and fetishes you have by exposing yourself to the porn world regardless if you want to jerk off or not. Think of it as studying if you got to. The important thing is that you learn what you turns you on and if it's not too bad (haha) , you can convince your spouse to do what turns you on. It would help make sex for yourself and your partner to be more enjoyable. It would also make you desire sex more.
