snyps on 03 April 2017
| John2290 said: Also, from your OP, I'm sorry to say but you don't seem to have a firm grasp on what you want yourself in life which is the platform you're going to base all this on. Do whatever feels right, don't google advice, give into base desire and don't take it as the end of the world if you fuck up, fucking up brings experience and more inner strength and direction. |
Thanks. I'd say you are right. Figuring out how my base desires fit in with reality is a challenge. I am getting more in touch with my true self and it's getting easier. My definition of love includes not having to sacrifice my passion to spend time with my lover but rather have a lover who shares that passion. This just doesn't fit with reality often enough and google, plus you all, helped me see why. I take extra caution because I'm eradic and I easily dismiss norms.
