I will just stick to seeing if she would like to play "real life" tennis (etc) and not video games, as a positive way to get us to "play". That's all I'm looking for, is someone to play with, doesn't have to be a video game.
Thanks for the advice everyone. It's helping me see this from outside my head.
I don't see any negatives and I think it would be optimal to have a life mate that liked open world adventures, but there's no way i'm going to try to change who she is or what she likes. Just gonna find common ground. I'm worried though that I would be more in love with someone that did like playing my favorite games.
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