So I'm not having a child..

[ArchangelMadzz]

Shiken said:

Life starts in the womb, so if you go the abortion route remember that you are denying your would be child a chance at life. In a sense, you end your child's life to save your own.

And no, your life will not he ruined. There is more than one road to success. You may not be able to take the path that you initially wanted to, but there are more than one path available to take.

I was 21 when my son was born. That was 8 years ago and I now have a one year old daughter as well. I am not a rich man, but I am successful financially making a comfortable six figures a year off of about forty hours a week. I did not start my career until AFTER my son was born.

It can be done, I know you are scared. You may not feel like it now but things happen for a reason and if you strive to move forward, you will find your way. I can promise you this, no matter what you decide career wise, you will never look at your child and think that it ruined your life. You made your decision, you did what you did. As long as you still want to succeed, you will.

I wish you luck and hope you find your way. Keep your head high and keep moving forward. Believe me, it gets better.

I feel I would much prefer the situation if it was with a Girlfriend or someone I had an emotional connection to? 

Silly me for trusting someone to take their pill eh?