So I'm not having a child..

[StarOcean]

ArchangelMadzz said:

ReimTime said:
TBH it might be a good idea to ask for a thread lock OP - this is going to spiral.
Counselors won't push you in a certain direction and won't guilt-trip you. This site will, and already has.
That being said, props to the 3-4 people ITT who actually said something helpful without projecting onto OP.
Once again, I know you both will make the right choice, because in the end it is the choice that will be right for you both. Take your time, communicate, and good luck!

To be fair those 3-4 people (and your personal message) made it worth it. I don't mind the thread being locked but I can take whatever these guys throw as I respect the members of this site which is why I came here in the first place.

Just a pretty jarring situation, not been in it before and the uncertainty is what has got me most. I'd like it to stay open to update it further with anything but if mods feel it needs to be locked I understand.

I'd like for it to stay open too. And for the most part, people have been fine. I just hope it stays that way. I'd like to know how this goes and what kind of road it takes you on. And in times of need people want support and advice, so hearing from random people can be good. Just make sure the decisions and actions you take are from you and you alone. If you read something that may sway you one way or the next, read into it. Or look at the pros and cons of each outcome.

But yeah, I'm in full support of whatever you and your friend make together. I really hope this works out for everyone in the end