ReimTime on 10 September 2016
TBH it might be a good idea to ask for a thread lock OP - this is going to spiral.
Counselors won't push you in a certain direction and won't guilt-trip you. This site will, and already has.
That being said, props to the 3-4 people ITT who actually said something helpful without projecting onto OP.
Once again, I know you both will make the right choice, because in the end it is the choice that will be right for you both. Take your time, communicate, and good luck! 
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