Should kids have a chance to grow up and decide what gender they are, or should parents change their sex early on?

[Azuren]

gatito said:
Just because they can give birth (fact) doesn't mean they will be good mothers or should become mothers at all.

Correct, like I said: It's not 100% that a woman will make a good mother. From an evolutionary standpoint, however, women have evolved the necessary traits to physically and mentally be good mothers. It's that psychological part that disqualifies some.