My girlfriend says I don't get anymore hanky panky unless we get married

[Aeolus451]

burninmylight said:

Aeolus451 said:

It's common but incorrect for the most part. It just wishful thinking that god made someone to be your other half. No where in the bible does it mention that we get a mate hand picked by god. You also have to consider that our souls are immortal so we might not meet anyone while alive.  

God choosing for us defeats the whole point of giving us free will. We're supposed to choose our mate(s) and figure out on you own if you're compatible or not. It's no different than having to make any other choice in life. 

Sex is a very important part of compatibility. 

I'm not christian or religious. I just read the bible while trying to maintain a objective point of view. 

That's just a bit of romanticism.

This is the most reasonable and rational post about Christianity I've ever read from someone who isn't Christian.

Thanks.