So, PSVR, You in?

[Aeolus451]

Lawlight said:

Aeolus451 said:

No but I have with other girlfriends. For me, it helps the relationship a great deal if a girlfriend has a least one hobby she can do at the house like reading, painting or playing video games w/o me, etc. It gives us enough alone time to miss eachother even when we're around eachother all the time. I don't need that much time alone everyday or every other day but it helps to have some hobbies that don't involve the SO. Personally, I can't stand clingy women that want my undivided attention all the time when I'm around her. 

People already miss their partner while working. You spend most of your waking hours away at work, exercising, etc. and the little time that you have together you want to completely shut them out of your life? Imagine gaming for 2 hours in the evening without interacting with your SO when you only have 3 free hours after work.

And nobody is talking about doing everything together - I know you're going to extremes and using words like clingy, attention, etc. because you're trying to prove a point.

If I only have 5 hours in a day as free time then half will go to personal time and the other half goes to SO. I cut into my sleep time for sex. Sometimes, I'll have no alone time and other times, the SO gets virtually no time from me that particular day. It's situational on what to spend time on any given day but It's far more healthy for any couples' relationship to spend quality alone time apart.