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fatslob-:O said:
Teeqoz said:

That's the thing, the best way to control them doesn't matter, because the best way to go about it *isn't* to control them. 

In quite a few cases I would say it is ... 

Sometimes parent's do need to teach their kids self control ...

Yeah, teaching your kids self control isn't the same as controlling their reactions using fear. I mean, self control isn't being controlled by your parents. That would be... well, not the opposite, but it certainly wouldn't be self control. Emphasis on self.