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think-man said:

GTstation said:
Did you ever do what you want or did you follow what other told you to do, school job marry what not.

Have you ever pursed your dream, what you fantasied about what all other said impossible ?

you sound like someone who never got to live risk and do what they wanted to.

I was kind of thrusted into a scenario i wasnt equipped for. I was struggling in the job department while my wife was achieving national recognition for her achievements, i felt id worked so hard to get my qualifications and wasnt getting the job or recognition i thought i would

i'm sorry but i'm gonna be very straight to you. You should feel proud of your wife achievements and instead you start to push her away? that is not how a proper man behaves. My wife has a more successful professional life than me and all i can feel is proud that she can do what she does and i feel a little better about myself because in the relationship i do my small part that helps her achieve what she does right now and what she will in the future (and i know i could do a lot more, but i'am lazy, still i try to give at least a stable relationship and a funny and light home environment (yes, my job is to tell her jokes)). As long as she doesn't feel i holding her back, this situation does not bother me, i work for money (i'm a wore) not for social recognition, i am what i am not what i do. This is the 21 century, don't let  old prejudice mess up your life.

Man up is my advice. Happiness is overrated afterall...
Also seek professional help because with health one should not joke about. And a hobby besides gaming, if it involves physical activity even better. my advice is swimming, while you are in the water you think of nothing and you feel weightless.