If you would have to look at someone's face to shit talk, online gaming wouldn't be as big as it is.
You obviously have the wrong idea of how VR local multiplayer would look like. Please take the time to educate yourself and look at all the existing and fun local multiplayer experiences for VR. Like this one for example.
http://www.keeptalkinggame.com/
If you demand respect or gratitude for your volunteer work, you're doing volunteering wrong.







