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thedawghousev2 said:
Wonktonodi said:

No, the question usually works well to get a person to think that some things they think are choices others make aren't actually a choice they made themselves.

For those that think they chose to be hetero, I actually hope to get a detailed answer and increase my understanding. Because I know I didn't choose what I am attracted to, the closest one could argue is when I chose to label myself as gay, since there is a lot of grey area between heterosexual and homosexual that most of us actually fit in.


i don't see why choosing which sex to be attracted can't be similar to people having different tastes in clothing, music, food, video games, or whatever

I think the only sexual orientation that naturally gets to choose when sex they bed with are bi-sexuals. Those people have the pick of the litter man. As a straight guy it seems to me like they have all the choice in the world. I didn't choose to be heterosexual, I just am.