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ils411 said:
I didn't read through all of the replies, but I dont get why "having children" is brought up...

Its just dating. Dating and marriage are completely different beasts. you could go out and date for fun right?

Anyways, OP, normally, I'd say HELLZ NO! But the truth of the matter is, there are transsexuals that are indeed attractive. In fact, I've seen some, that if i didn't know that they were transsexuals, I'd have really thought that they were female...

Even if I am 100% a guy and have no gay tendencies, I'd consider dating a transsexual as long as he/she is honest enough to actually come out and say that he/she is a transsexual. I'd have no problem with that...but if I end up dating a transsexual and didn't know that he was a transsexual and then i find out...well...all hell will break loose and he will be at the receiving end of my fists of fury.

Notice how I call a transsexual who is honest a he/she? well coz he is a she and is not ashamed of it and that demands respect from me and hence, i can consider a former he a she..

But someone who tries to deceive people doesn't deserve any respect and will always be a he deserving of any harsh treatment directed towards him.


Most of the times that they use child birth as a crutch is because they want a natural person of born of the sex rather than someone who changed their sex based on gender association. They don't want to even think about the option. It will take some years for conservative society to get used to this. Thanks to science, people who identify with the gender role of the opposite sex can change (pending they take drugs to regulate their hormones as well) and it scares a lot of people who understand what they are going through. As a society we have to give it time because people have to accept that at least there is a difference between gender and sex.