The Romantic Advice Thread

[NiKKoM]

trashleg said:

What's "too soon"? If after 8 months with a guy he wants me to learn his language and think about moving to his country next summer, am I supposed to say "back the fuck up, bitch" as a way of saying "yeah okay that sounds nice"?

You guys. Tsss. NikkoM, make a separate thread with how to understand men plz. 

You're not supposed to say yes immediatly.. yes you should say: "back the f up., I have my own live here, if you love me come to my country"
Don't be desperatly dependant of guy.. he's basicly asking you to jump of a bridge and you pointed to one and say: "that one?".. Scares the shit out of us..  the closer we get with a girl, the chance increases we'll break up.. till we man up.. you can't force us to man up (while an unexpected pregancy does help) .. When we think about stuff like sitting with you in a nice Paris cafe lisiting to chansons and eating baquets for every freaky sunday for the rest of our lives.. we think: "nope.. not now..".. The things we say in a relationship to keep the other happy is for in the now, and not about the future... thats later, when we man up..