| Mr Khan said: :-/ Seems to be more misunderstanding here. I thought moving quickly was the point. Not overplaying my hand, stating that i'm head-over-heels for her or anything, but demonstrating that i am interested in getting to know her, specifically, in a one-on-one setting. Clear intentions without going too far in my aims or emotional presentation. That if you let these things go on for months without clarifying your intentions, you get friendzoned and there goes the neighborhood. Without stating as much, i'm signaling "I am attracted to you and would like a chance to get to know you a little better to see if we are compatible." Is it really supposed to be more complicated than that? I mean, one of my primary goals here has been to avoid putting any kind of pressure on her while still not being so subtle that i won't get noticed. No games, no gimmicks. |
Moving quickly in person! face to face............... -__-" the rest is correct.. But she doesn't know you that well yet. So its up most important to look in her eyes when even asking her for a coffee.. If you would go on a real date you also wouldn't text her right?
Lets say it in a different way: it doesn't matter how much i tried, how good I'm with words.. I don't have a chance with Trashleg if i asked her out through this website: She doesn't know me that well, she might find me creepy and never talk to me again.
But.. if i flew to her, stood at her door, ring the bell and she would open, and say: "lets have those waffles".. She could see my eyes being serious and I could see the shock in her eyes right before she punches me in the balls..
Completly different reaction to the same question.
And yes its supposed to be this complicated..
Face the future.. Gamecenter ID: nikkom_nl (oh no he didn't!!)
