o_O.Q said:
" How many of those guys also greet other guys on the street like that? You know the answer - none of them. That's what makes it sexual harassment"
yeah i think we can say with certainty that these men wanted to have sex with that woman however, trying to initiat contact with someone you're interested in having sex with is now harassment?
"because them "being nice" is only a cover" that's true men men do behave in gregarious ways towards women with the intention of forming relationships with them, but how else would they form relationships?
this is what feminism is doing to men its actually making men such as yourself feel guilt for being sexually attracted to women i'll just say that imo there's nothing wrong with being sexually attracted to women and acting on that desire however, there are obviously boundaries that have to be respected until the woman you are pursuing allows you inside those boundaries
seeing posts like this make me wonder how people are ever going to have sex when these ideaologies get a stronger hold on society and i do believe they will, although i suppose i have a clue to the answer already |
I'm a woman and yes it's harassment. The problem is that most of us always need to second guess the intentions of guys because of crap like this. In most cases guys are not nice for the sake of being nice, they're nice for the sake of getting in our pants..
It also makes you scared. I've had numerous guys say hello on the street and react negatively to me walking buy and ignoring them, to the point of following me for blocks saying incredibly crude and sometimes threatening things. It makes you worried for your safety, because as a woman you can't protect yourself. Most guys don't follow up that way, but enough do that any situation in which you're catcalled or even approached on the street makes you feel uncomfortable. IMO, don't approach a girl unless she makes eye contact.
