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Mr Khan said:
NiKKoM said:

Wait.. You talked to her today? Does she go to the party? Why aren't you having coffee with her? Do i need to slap you? 

No, this was before the last post i made, about 10:30 this morning (now 7:17 PM where i'm typing), the middle of her econ class and so i didn't get a chance to move the conversation the other way (caught her on the way back from break).

Tried to catch her on the way *out* of that class, but my lurk powers failed me, then other chances later in the day didn't work out (i would've had to hang out a LONG time after my 3 o'clock)

Alright.. I just giving you a heads up, not trying to pressure you.. But all these casual chit chat with her will lead you to the friendzone.. There will be a point in time when she will think: "he's nice but i don't know if he's interested in me.. We talked a few times but thats it"  at some point you'll have to make the coffee thing happen. Cause it shows interest in her. What the next step beyond that is doesn't matter right now. The more you two talk without you pushing for the coffee, aka doing something with just the two of you,  the more she will think your not interested in her as a potential lover but as a friend.. And you are actually right at the frontdoor with that cause she has agreed to it already.. Just ring again so she opens the door..

The pain of being in love with someone you know well while she just sees you as a friend is more painfull then a rejection with someone you have an attraction to..  ( now is the time for trashleg to come in and comfort me for a while)



 

Face the future.. Gamecenter ID: nikkom_nl (oh no he didn't!!)