At this stage I would start by cutting off your penis, as for the kids you have to do what's best for the children who are yours, if the others are going into foster care it would maybe be best to just allow the state to take care of them. I don't mean to sound mean to you but if you have cash issues getting a lawyer for legal help then you probably couldn't provide the same lvl of care that the kid with needs will get when he/she enters state funded care.
I had the oppertunity to be a carer here for a kid who had special needs for close to a year while his mother was in Jail and I have to say between the state making sure that the kid is happy they really make sure that we had enough extra cash etc to get all the stuff he needed to be able to attend school, he was far better off because of it, just saying that you shouldn't worry too much about the ones in foster care, if it's anything like here the state will be very careful who gets to love and take care of those kids, because if they hand some kid over to someone who might hurt the child then the state is liable for that.
Like I said tho love the kids you have direct care over, it might be less confusing for the other kids to not know their full life stories if it envolves abuse at the hands of their mother, that is very hard for a child to understand why a mom would do that if they have friends with traditional familys or so.
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