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NiKKoM said:
rutea7 said:

still it's unhealthy not having healthy relationships and being able to interact with both genders, like girls who cant get along with girls... those have serious issues. a healthy social life and interactions with other human beings is one of the keys to a happy healthy life... and not creeping out everyone else.

and not doing it exclusively online is VERY important. Join in an activity, sport, hobby, club that exposes you to interaction with people. Go on outings with work coleagues, whatever. Some people should realize that their ineptitude to relate to other human beings is very easy to transpire in their online interactions as well.

I agree with you 100% but .. well.. its easy to tell them, but it this is the internet.. i can't check if anyone listens to the advice we give..  I'm pretty open and outgoing in real life, so it was pretty strange to me..  but i do see students (I part-time teach) who have those problems.. even then it's its hard to try to open them up, let alone internet strangers who we met here on this site.. thats the part those users will have to find out for themselfs..

XD yes, it's not an easy thing to do but it will only get harder as they grow old, seclusion will become more hard to leave behind and making new friendships becomes more and more difficult as we get older. Also as adults we have less patience to help people learn the boundaries and apropriate way to behave in adult friendships that they didnt learn growing up.