NiKKoM said:
I agree with you 100% but .. well.. its easy to tell them, but it this is the internet.. i can't check if anyone listens to the advice we give.. I'm pretty open and outgoing in real life, so it was pretty strange to me.. but i do see students (I part-time teach) who have those problems.. even then it's its hard to try to open them up, let alone internet strangers who we met here on this site.. thats the part those users will have to find out for themselfs.. |
XD yes, it's not an easy thing to do but it will only get harder as they grow old, seclusion will become more hard to leave behind and making new friendships becomes more and more difficult as we get older. Also as adults we have less patience to help people learn the boundaries and apropriate way to behave in adult friendships that they didnt learn growing up.