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bananaking21 said:
rutea7 said:


and lets face it, if you made it in there i believe our screening process and standards are pretty friendly XD

i cant believe i come back from an awesome girl time at a bachelorette party to find so many pages of... whatever it is i just read.

if you say something and the other person takes offense you take responsability for it whether it was your intention to offend or not... some women will take offense more easily than others and they should still be respected and not criticized because of it.

i just laugh off most of the stupid and sexist stuff i read here, thats how i'm still here, but i do not condone or believe that this is an ideal or inviting environment for female posters and that they should "learn to roll with it" that is just ridiculous


ya'll abused me. kept calling me namers like nanners and kept making banana jokes. i have feelings you know.

but in all seriousness, i do agree, intent shouldnt be the only factor, its the effect of the post that matters as well. i said it before to descrive VGC and i will say it again, VGC is a boys club. the way guys speak and behave is so much similar to a boys club, infact, just looking at the comments in here proves it, a lot of people were surprised at females being present here, and when females arent present we all know how guys act, disgusting. 

exactly, guys here always behave like there's no members of the oposite sex present and by assuming that they'll alienate those members.

it's like if girls are in a girls only group things will be said that wouldnt normally be said in the presence of guys. but girls are usually more aware of male presence and wont alienate male members, the oposite cant be said, especially when they are clearly the majority.