Girlfriend Advice

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Baalzamon said:

She is not stopping me from dating other people, no. If she was, I would just see it as her juggling me around until she can determine if she wants me or not, and I would part ways with her immediately.

Relative to her issues, I strongly do feel she needs to figure that stuff out. Now, does that mean she actually will? That is something that I really don't know. I have a very hard time seeing her as being single for 6 months, even if she believes that is her intention right now. I hope that she is able to give herself time to figure things out, even if it means we never do date again, but I really don't know. But she is very clear on the fact that if she is completely unable to do that, our friendship won't work (and she was very insistent when I was saying this it has nothing to do with another guy).

I'll tell it to you straight... If she has issues and she doesn't think you are the one she can trust to go and deal with those issues together.. it's not gonna work.  And of course you care about her that she deals with her issues, but she certainly doesn't want to deal them with you.. cause it well may be, like it or not, that YOU are one of her issues.