I ask the same question too....I understand that it could be different around the US, but I've talked to people in Texas that say they are in stock everywhere, now in Florida too, and I'm from Fort Wayne, Indiana...where they are also in stock everywhere (even Elites).
We should start a thread with a list of every state. Each new person in the thread can copy it and erase their state off the list (or bold it or something) if 360's are readily available in the stores and also locally online.
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