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Kasz216 said:
KBG29 said:
I don't think there is any issue with appreciating someones beauty. The most disrespectful thing to me is when someone checks someone out, gets caught, and does not admit there admiration for that persons looks.

It is so sad when you see someone crushing on someone else for years, but they will never fess up. Everyone knows, but the guy or girl is to insecure to make a move. To me, that is creepy, disrespectful, and self degrading.


and then when the guy does confess... usually with an overblow "I've always loved you" type confession he's confused why it goes badly and think he's "friendzoned".   When the girl is just creeped out that a person who she thought was her friend was secretly mind banging her for years.

If the guy doesn't want to get friendzoned, he has to create some sexual tension. What do you do if you sense that a girl you are not attracted to is into you? You work to eliminate any sexual polarity. You treat her like you would a friend. 

pbroy said:

If a woman dresses to look sexy, she wants to be appreciated and looked at, but it doesn't mean they want you to harass them or touch them. Look but not touch, that's what I go by. If they constantly get too much attention, then they will dress down. Woman hold the power to control a man's behavior towards them. It's up to men to show respect by how much a woman is willing to put out there.

I love beauty in woman. Admiration is my limit

Yes; women dress nice for positive attention. When she sees a guy looking at her, she might think 'he thinks I'm cute' when in reality he could be having sexual fantasies about her. 

oldschoolfool said:
If there hott,then I'm going to look every single time. It has nothing to do with respect. I'm pretty sure women check out men all the time,there just not so open about it. Besides,it's not like I'm going to stalk them if they have a boyfriend/husband. LMAO!!!!!!!!!!

The difference is that women can appreciate physical attractiveness without having the slightest thought of having sex with that person. Most men cannot do that. 



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