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haxxiy said:

From personal experience, besides the poor flirting, if a girl is interested on you she will:

1 - Ask stuff about your life on return when you're talking
2 - Compliment on your personality / mindset (a fairly common giveaway)
3 - Mention a quality of yours is a rare find nowadays
4 - Remember stuff about your conversations that you don't
5 - Contact you (some will, some won't)

It's important to remember atraction isn't a switch you turn on and off. Most girls that actually answer to your messages, calls etc. are actually giving a shot on knowing you better. It's up to you to make the most of it, and go for it if it's the case.

PS. Ask her out.

Sometimes though, people will flirt with others, but have no intention of getting with them. I've even done this myself from time to time. It's sometimes just fun to flirt with others. It can be entertaining, to laugh a bit, maintain eye-contact and pass a few compliments. However, if the person is awkward in social situations, they might not recognize the social cues that define the limited range of some flirting. It wouldn't be the first or last time someone reads too much into a casual smile, a wink or a laugh, as sometimes inner hopes can cloud judgement.

That said, reading what the OP has written,  I would still encourage him to go for it, as it could be a learning experience either way.

@Mirson- Do you know her name yet? Also, are you planning on asking her out then and there in the restaurant?