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[makingmusic476]

iclim4 said:

makingmusic476 said:
It may just be an issue between us. You should try playing a match with somebody else and see what happens.

TRY PLAYING WITH SOMEBODY ELSE?!

Yes, we have our issues, but we can work it out.
I can change some settings!
I'll fix the problem! I promise!
Don't give up on US.
We we're meant to Brawl TOGETHER!

I'm sorry, but things are moving WAY too fast. 

I...I think we should play other people. 

For now.  Just to see how things go.