Don't PS4/XBO have the same ethernet cards? They should connect to your router equally as easily. As for your PS3, you should change the settings on your PS3.
Anyway, how can XB Live be the Killer Ap to "dethrone" the PS4 if it's older? If this ap were so killer, how did PS4 top XBO right off the bat? Why would an old "killer ap" top a newer one?
As for your post, complete non-sense. People will buy PS4 if that's what most people in the area have and same goes for 360. Since PS4 is outselling XBO, I would assume Canada, and the more populated coastal cities prefer PSN/PS4. However the Central and Southern States probably prefer XBO. No killer ap will change this, it's just some parts of USA prefer domestic products, and some people prefer the cheaper, better optimized for gaming platform.
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